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Top Tips Series: helping your teen start a new school with confidence

Last Updated - August 28, 2025

Top Tips Series: helping your teen start a new school with confidence

Starting a new school can feel like a big step — and it’s completely normal to feel nervous or unsure. Many teens experience these emotions, even if they don’t show it. Understanding that these feelings are shared by others can help you feel less alone and more prepared. With a bit of planning, support, and self-kindness, you can ease into this new chapter feeling more confident and ready to thrive.

Top Tips for Teens

  • Understand Your Emotions – It’s okay to feel nervous or unsure. Recognising that these feelings are common can help you feel less alone and more prepared to manage them.
  • Talk to Someone You Trust – Sharing your worries with a parent, teacher, or friend can be a huge relief. They can offer advice, reassurance, and help you feel more confident.
  • Prepare in Advance – Get your uniform, supplies, and morning routine sorted before the first day. Feeling organised can reduce anxiety and help you feel more in control.
  • Set Small Goals – Focus on achievable goals for the first week — like saying hello to someone new, finding your way around, or completing your homework. Small wins build confidence.
  • Practice Relaxation Techniques – Try deep breathing, meditation, or gentle movement like yoga. These can help calm your mind and body before and during school days.
  • Create a Routine – A consistent daily schedule can provide stability and help you adjust to your new environment more easily.
  • Stay Positive – Focus on the good things — like meeting new people, learning new subjects, or joining clubs. Positivity can help shift your mindset.
  • Ask for Help When You Need It – If your worries feel overwhelming, speak to a teacher, school counsellor, or mental health professional. You’re not alone, and support is available.

Tips for Parents Supporting Teens

  • Listen without judgement and validate their feelings.
  • Encourage preparation and help them get organised.
  • Promote social opportunities like clubs or activities.
  • Model calm and confidence to help ease their nerves.
  • Celebrate small successes and be patient with the transition.
  • Know when to seek extra support if anxiety persists.
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